How to Become a Sexy Woman: 4 Tips for Crossdressers and Transgender Women

Want to know the secret to becoming a sexy woman?

Here’s what it’s NOT:

• Wearing super short skirts and stripper heels

• Putting on huge breast forms

• Pouting your lips and sticking your butt out

True sexiness is a state of mind!

There are lots of small things you can do to boost your feminine sex appeal – without crossing the line from sexy to slutty.

Here are 4 must-try tips:

1. Wear red

Color is a huge part of the impression you make on people. Each color has a meaning that is communicated on a subconscious level.

Without a doubt, RED is the sexiest color of all!

Red is associated with passion, desire, and love – so wear red to increase your feminine sex appeal. Even a few touches of red (like a red bag or heels) will put you in touch with your sensuous side.

2. Try a sexy workout

A fit, toned body is undeniably sexy. But that doesn’t mean you need to spend hours on a boring treadmill.

Instead, why not try a “sexy workout?”

Belly dancing, pole dancing, or cardio striptease will help you burn calories while channeling your inner seductress. These workouts will also help you achieve more feminine and fluid body movements.

Here are some sexy workouts to try:

• Luscious: The Bellydance Workout for Beginners

• Carmen Electra’s Aerobic Striptease

• Pussycat Dolls Workout

3. Wear sexy lingerie

It’s hard NOT to feel sexy in a pretty bra and panties.

Even if you don’t plan to show off your underwear, wearing sexy lingerie under your clothes will make you feel more seductive and confident.

You should also get rid of any lingerie that doesn’t add to your sex appeal. This includes anything that’s worn out or that doesn’t fit properly. If it doesn’t make you feel hot, don’t keep it!

4. Make seductive eye contact

The way you make eye contact communicates your level of confidence, femininity, and sex appeal.

It’s important to make eye contact, but at the same time, you don’t want to overdo it.

Here are 3 seductive eye contact skills to practice:

• Look people in the eye, but break contact every 5 seconds or so.Staring too intensely can creep people out.

• Try the triangle technique. When you are listening to somebody, look at one eye for 5 seconds, then the other eye for 5 seconds, and finally the mouth for 5 seconds. Continue rotating your gaze in this pattern.

• Look from the side. To appear more flirtatious, try a sideways glance instead of looking at somebody straight on. Do this while smiling and raising the eyebrows slightly.

What makes YOU look and feel your sexiest?

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this hot topic, so be sure to leave a comment below!

Would I Really Want To Be A Woman? In One Word, Yes!

In an instant, including pregnancy.

I realize there can be negative consequences it has now (losing any chance of a good job, losing most family and friends and being left in the dust, scorned by the public consistently). But I would do it.

The biggest hurdle is cost. How do I pay for the surgeries, the hormone replacement therapy for life, the counseling/psychiatrist to even begin. Not to mention the cost of changing all my past records.

As long as I can remember, I always had feminine desires. I always wanted to dress as a girl and do girlie things. I always wanted to be caressed by a man. I always wanted to nurture my children and yes even take care of a home.

I understand the complexities in being a woman. Living full time trying to find/keep a job. Looking perfect when you leave your house and so many other little things. Also just having a very bad day. Well, just me maybe.

I would put up with cramps and bleeding every month, having babies, being discriminated against in the workplace, other female physical problems, harassment, etc. Because being a woman is inside of me. There are things that males have to put with also. So I could certainly deal with the things women have to put up with.

I have thought about transitioning, and in addition to the I want to pass as a woman or at least blend into society. I don't want to always be questioned about my gender. Cliche, as it sounds, I know I really 'am' a woman and I would want everyone else to see and understand that.

I am a female, Working on the outside now. I do know that being a woman is not about glamour and being beautiful all the time. I finally came to terms with how I feel and have learned to live with it. I accept that some days I am, some days I'm not ... the woman I want to be.

I have the commitment to change on the outside so I will just be who I am and accept that the person in the mirror is close to who I am inside, even though the reflection is not always who I want to see or who I really see.

Absolutely I want to be a total and complete woman. No second thoughts. In my mind and my heart, I am a woman and I love it.

Yes I want to be a woman, I know it is not all roses, but I would be the woman that I was meant to be.

 "I’m pretty, but I’m not beautiful. I sin but I’m not the devil. I’m good but I’m not an angel." ~ Marilyn Monroe